To me flirting is a subtle art of both verbal and non verbal communication. Usually I flirt with straight women as it’s safe, or when I’m after something (a favour from a friend or work colleague).
Recently I’ve had two men who’ve caught my eye and so I’ve flirted with them. The problem is: when I like a guy I’m not so subtle.
So I got some flirting practice in with these two guys. It didn’t matter as I knew both guys weren’t right for me. The Fascinating Man has a partner & foster kids and the second man was too young.
But during flirting I realised that if it’s through Facebook messaging or the like – you completely loose the tone of voice and body language. This making subtle flirting even more difficult.
I can be Subtle, but it seems I still need to work on being subtle with men I like.
Write soon,
Antony
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I think it’s better to be an obvious flirt than too subtle… I always found it very difficult to do that in real life so always needed the internet to help me get past that threshold. You;re an outgoing person, so why not? Definitely for those you like of course!