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Facebook = Too Much Information

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Sometimes people post things on facebook that I’d rather not know. 🙁

Facebook = TMI (too much info.).

A friend of mine, whom I’ve always liked has just posted pictures of his new apartment with his boyfriend. Sigh.

He just doesn’t see how I feel about him or perhaps he doesn’t feel the same. Sigh. Why can’t he see how cool I am (ok, I know I just lost cool points for saying I was cool lol).

Ah well, I guess all I can do is wish him well.

Love and hugs,

Antony x

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Honest Coversations

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A few weeks ago I had some honest conversations. I am proud of the fact I was honest about how I feel about people. I am the type of person to keep my feelings to myself, so this is really a step forward.

The friendly ex (see An update on Men and Men) – I was honest and made it clear that I just wanted friendship. He was concerned that I might change my mind in a few months. I can understand this, given our history. But as I explained to him, I can only go off how I feel now. I think I can only have all (a relationship) or nothing (no friendship). This is a huge shame as he’s a wonderful guy.

The ex friend with benefits – I was honest after our recent date (see Harry Potter and Weridness), that emotionally I’ve moved on. I think he’ll make a good friend – we just need to keep the boundaries clear. I don’t want us slipping in to the old friends with benefits routine.

Blog soon,

Antony x

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Harry Potter and Weridness

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This weekend I have had a date with the ex friend with benefits (see An update of Men & Men). We went watching the new Harry Potter film. The film was good but left a lot of questions unanswered. It also seemed to jump from scene to scene with no real flow to it.

As an end to the date came to an end a kiss was expected. It was nice but very werid, like a ball of weridness. It’s hard to know were the boundaries are and if indeed I want to date this person?

I guess time will tell.

Blog soon,

Antony

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An update on Men

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Recently I posted about the Men in my life right now (see Men). Well everyone the plot thickens, so here’s a quick update:

1. The date? – He canceled as was unwell. He did sound ill when he rang me to be honest and I didn’t want to particularly catch what ever it was he had. However he’s been quiet on the text. I have even texted him asking him if he would like to rearrange our brunch date. No response. Guess he has lost his bottle or his interest in me or both.

2. The friendly ex – I have had to reinforce my I-just-want-friendship feelings to him recently. He is going a way on Hols soon, I hope he has a really good time.

3. David – I guess my recent blog post entitled Control didn’t help in terms of him wanting to talk to me. He’s still not answering my calls. It’s worse than before as he doesn’t just let his phone ring off he actually presses the ignore button after which the automated womans voice says “The user is busy. Please try again later.” Don’t you just hate that?

4. A friend with benefits – A new comer on the man front. He is an old friend who used to be a friend with benefits (I think that clearly explains it?) from well before I met David. I always wanted to date him and perhaps if dating worked out start a proper relationship. But he didn’t. He’s apparently seen my status on Facebook and decided to get in touch. I have arranged a meal with him on a date next week, so I’ll keep you informed.

In other news – I am not at all well. I have not slept well and when I have I have disturbing nightmares, I’m feeling tired all the time, by blood sugars are messed up and I’m sure I’ve got some infection or other. My nose is like a tap and I have a terrible cough, sore throat – basically I’m falling to pieces.

Blog when feeling better,

Antony

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