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The Brit Digital ID Card – Creating A Dystopian UK

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According to the mainstream media, the Brit Digital ID Card is coming. See today’s articles in: The Guardian & The BBC. The talk is that they are going to be compulsory for anyone who wants to work, meaning the majority of the working age population.

The UK Government (or those really in power) have wanted an ID card system since the days when Tony Blair was Prime Minister. The only difference between now and then is the addition on the the word ‘Digital’ which represents how much more connected and capable technology now is. Connected via the Internet.

Capable in terms of being able to automatically monitor the activity of a population and flag anything suspicious or that doesn’t attune to the desires of those who have power in the UK.

The UK population didn’t want a ID Card when it was first suggested decades ago and we certainly don’t want a Digital ID Card now.

I recently blogged about The Data (Use and Access) Act 2025, detailing my concerns and ways it could go horribly wrong. But it passed through into law without seemingly any objection. Looking back now, I think The Data (Use and Access Act) 2025 was a fundamental change to the law to allow for the introduction of Brit Digital ID Cards and for the data that they hold to be expanded on and used more over time.

In the UK it seems we are well on our way to creating a Dystopian society. And I don’t like it. Not at all.

A dystopian society is one that is deeply unjust, where the general population are controlled and manipulated by those in power (usually through abuse of power). Hallmarks of a dystopian society include: constant surveillance and monitoring of the general population, a complete loss of freedom of opinions and choices for individuals and dehumanising/alienation of those that speak up against corruption and abuse of power.

Now this sounds like a story of fiction doesn’t it? But just imagine the UK adopted just half of these dystopian society characteristics in the future. Imagine being monitored by AI, 24/7. Not just were you go and what you do but everything: What you buy, who you spend time with the content of intimate and private conversations.

Just imagine not being able to stand up and call out injustice and unfair treatment out of fear of loosing everything: your home, access to your money (including food, fuel, heat, etc.), your job, communication/contact with loved ones and even things like health and education services.

There really are no limits as to what could happen if a UK Digital Brit Card is introduced.

If we look at the past, we know that those who get power (whether that be financial, political, militaristic, legal, etc.) tend to abuse it. This will be no different. It will be too tempting to use the Brit Digital ID Card to enforce compliance and control the narrative.

It’s fundamentally about trust. Do the UK population trust those in power to be fair and just in using this system? How could we possibly trust those in power, when everyday there are more reports of abusive of the power that they already have. Think about tax avoidance. Think about big companies that have raided their employees pension pots. Think about the number of corruption cases we see everyday.

Both the UK’s past and current circumstances (such as The Cost of Living Crisis) have been driven by the greed of those in power. Always wanting more: More money. More power. More influence. It’s like a never-ending hunger. Like an unquenchable thirst.

We’ve all played the board game Monopoly and know how it ends: The rich becoming super rich and owning everything, whilst the middle-class and poor own nothing. Greater financial inequality. More poverty. More misery middle-class, working-class and poor. Part of this isn’t just a UK problem, but a global one.

But our UK Politician’s can make Britain a better place. They could tackle tax avoidance by the super rich, break up monopolies, make the public sector strong, make society feel fairer and more just.

But they don’t. Instead they continue to offer manifestos that they throw out the window the minute they get into power. They are dishonest with the public and often outright lie. They don’t listen to the people they are supposed to represent. They don’t listen to the experts who try and advise them on ill-informed policy decisions. They don’t seem to have any bit of integrity or good values.

Of course not all Politicians are bad. Some have good intentions, but these intentions are drowned by a bureaucratic system that is run by the super rich for the super rich.

But I’m not without hope. I’ve recently joined Your Party, a UK political party set up by Jeremy Corbyn and others who want to change society for the better. Whilst their members are still in discussions around policies and the direction of the party, I hope will all of my heart that this will be a place where I can claim I am politically home.

Take Care,

Antony

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The Happiest I Have Ever Been

By Creativity, Friends & Family, Gay, Health, Life, Love & Relationships, Money / Finances, Thinking2 Comments

Just over a year ago, I felt numb and like I was coasting through life. I was existing, rather than living. I hadn’t been well for a while and had recently been diagnosed with vasculitis.

People with vasculitis have a significantly reduced life expectancy when compared to that of the average person. This diagnosis caused me to re-think every aspect of my life. It caused me to ask myself: Are you happy? The answer was no.

So then I started asking myself: What would make you happier? I had to look at everything: my health, my work, my relationships with others, my passions (including writing), my finances, my home life, my mental & emotional health.

It was a daunting task. Sometimes, it is easier to be stuck in an unhappy and unfulfilling rut, rather than be brave and face the truth. Especially when facing and accepting where I was in my life involved acknowledging the unhappiness and beginning to make changes.

Change is always hard. Our brains like patterns of behaviour. They are key to our survival as a species, but not key to a healthier and happier life.

So I got counselling. I explored every aspect of my life. I started making changes: prioritising my health, changing jobs, working with others to improve relationships – resetting of expectations and putting in boundaries, getting back on the dating apps, working on a more balanced approach to pursuing my passions, reducing my financial outgoings were possible and trying harder to stick to a budget, getting rid of excess clutter at home and generally taking better care of my mental and emotional health.

None of it was easy. And I’m still not where I want to be. But I’m pleased to say my health has improved in some areas such as my diabetes management & mental health. I am also happier than I can ever remember being.

Write soon,

Antony

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The Power of the Subconscious Mind

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The power of the subconscious mind should never be underestimated. The subconscious mind is responsible for automatic responses to stimuli including: physiological states/changes, storing & processing of experiences/memories, prompting thoughts into the conscious mind, determining emotional responses and morals/beliefs. The subconscious mind can influence our behaviour without our conscious mind being aware of it.

Some good examples of the subconscious mind in action are any behaviour that we do without consciously thinking about it (such as breathing or holding your breath, your heart beating, walking, body language) and learned behaviours (such as navigating a route, riding a bike, driving a car).

The role of your subconscious mind is to keep you safe and to make life a little easier for you. But unlike your conscious mind it isn’t driven by thoughts and logic, instead it is driven by emotions and intuition.

Think of the two parts of your mind as being like an iceberg. Your conscious mind being above the water level, whereas your subconscious mind is the much larger part of the iceberg hidden below the water.

If your subconscious mind is troubled or disturbed, you are likely to experience some of the following symptoms:

  • Difficulty sleeping – you may struggle getting to sleep or staying a sleep. You might have disturbing dreams or even night terrors. Waking up more tired than when you went to bed.
  • A lack of energy – including feeling exhausted. This in turn will impact on your motivation levels, as energy and motivation are intricately linked.
  • Muscle tension – throughout your body. You may experience unexplained aches and pains.
  • Difficulty relaxing and a lack of enjoyment in activities you used to find pleasurable.
  • Increased anxiety levels – along with all the symptoms that anxiety brings with it.
  • A reduced ability to concentrate, including difficulties in making both small and large decisions.
  • Feeling overwhelmed.
  • Becoming easily irritated or annoyed.

So how do you heal a troubled or disturbed mind? It’s a difficult one. It’s not easy. It takes work.

Your subconscious mind doesn’t operate the way your conscious mind does. Your conscious mind is made up of thoughts. You can reason and use logic with it.

Your subconscious mind on the other hand, it communicates in emotions, symbolism in dreams and random and often irrational thoughts. But there are things you can do to help your subconscious mind heal from being troubled, disturbed or traumatised. They include:

  1. Create a safe and positive environment – Your subconscious mind craves safety and a sense of security. So having an environment where you feel safe and positive is essential.
  2. Explore your emotions, lean into all of them and fully experience them. No more suppressing or ignoring hoe you feel. Process your emotions logically and thank your subconscious for sharing information through emotions.
  3. Pay close attention to you conscious thoughts. Look out for rumination, a critical inner voice and repetitive thoughts of self-doubt.
  4. Keep a journal. Express your thoughts and feelings on paper (or computer). Doing this allows your brain to properly process, rather than pushing thoughts and feelings down into the subconscious.
  5. Meditate. Meditation builds self-awareness and quietens your mind so you can better hear the messages from your subconscious.
  6. Practice self-care. Try to eat well, take regular exercise and have a good sleep routine. These actions not only help you physically but are an important signals to your subconscious. By practising self-care you are giving/repeating a message to your subconscious: That you matter enough to be kept safe and taken care of.
  7. Create new experiences – Focus on activities that bring you pleasure, enjoyment and happiness.
  8. Stop harmful behaviours – If you use alcohol, substances, disordered eating, excessive work or other behaviours that you are harming you whether that be physically, mentally or emotionally try to stop these. You may need professional help and it may take time. But do it. It is worth it, I promise.
  9. Evaluate your relationships. Make sure all your relationships are healthy and not in anyway abusive or neglectful. If you are in a toxic relationship, run, get out. You deserve to have relationships that are healthy, loving, kind and respectful.
  10. Get professional support. Get counselling or other talking therapies. The process of counselling (or other talking therapies) can help you to identify how you can change your life to make you healthier and happier. I will warn you that counselling or other talking therapies require active participation, reflection and a desire to deal with problems and make changes.
  11. Check in with how you are feeling regularly. Set a time each day to check in with how you feel. Try to choose a time when you are not busy – like first thing in the morning, lunchtime or before bed.
  12. Deal with any past traumatic experiences – This may include acknowledging what trauma you’ve experienced, dealing with difficult emotions and learning to forgive and let go.

Before I finish, I will say just one more thing: That healing the subconscious takes time. Don’t expect instant results. Just keep working on it and keep focused. Always ask yourself: Will my thinking/behaviour lead to a happier and healthier me? If the answer isn’t an instant yes, then change your thoughts or behaviour until the answer is a distinctive and strong YES!

Write soon,

Antony

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Unsafe Places to be a Gay Man

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Imagine living with a secret that could get you killed. Imagine the lengths you would have to go to to keep this secret. Imagine growing up being told that people like you are unnatural and immoral. In these circumstances how would you cope? How would you protect your mental and emotional health?

What I’ve just described is the life of some gay men in some places. They aren’t able to choose who they love. They face being disowned by their family and friends, assaults, criminal prosecution and potentially even being sentenced to death. Just because of who they are and who they are attracted to/fall in love with.

In the UK, gay men have equal rights in law and attitudes are becoming more positive towards gay men. But this wasn’t always the case.

Just fifty years ago, being gay was illegal in the UK. Gay men weren’t out, they couldn’t marry their male partners, couldn’t adopt children as a gay couple and couldn’t give blood.

If fifty years ago a gay man had come out and told people of their sexuality they would face legal consequences (such as being locked up in a mental hospital or worse chemical castration). They would face being disowned by their community (if not driven out of it), become the repeated victim of crime, experience unsympathetic and homophobic Police, experience discrimination when buying goods or accessing services, be unable to get employment and many other negative consequences. All because they’d been honest about who they are and who they are romantically attracted to.

Given this history of prejudice and discrimination (both on individual and institutional levels), it’s not surprising that coming out is a big event for gay men. Gay men who do come out show emotional vulnerability, driven by a desire for loved ones to fully know them and a hope that they will accept them for who they are. It explains why some people gay men will never come out and take the secret of who they are to their grave.

It also explains why gay men often have mental health issues (including being at greater risk of suicide), low self-esteem, problems with addiction (self-medicating difficult emotions such as shame or fear) and generally worse health outcomes than heterosexual people. There’s a lot of shame, self-loathing and unhappiness in the gay community. It is currently getting better in the UK, with younger generations of gay men experiencing these issues to a lesser extent.

But around the world there are many places where it is extremely unsafe to be a gay man. Where gay men still have to hide who they are. I think it’s really sad that gay men have only got equal rights in some countries, but not others.

Here are some countries where it is unsafe to be a gay man and what the legal consequences could be for coming out. An out gay man in any of these countries would likely experience the same prejudice and discrimination that an out gay man would have experienced in the UK fifty years ago. This is by no means an exhaustive list. Just some of the main countries I found out about whilst doing research for this blog post.

CountryLegal Consequences
EgyptUp to 17 years in prison, with or without hard labour.
MoroccoUp to 6 years in prison, with hard labour.
Tunisia3 years in prison.
Ghana3 years in prison.
NigeriaUp to 14 years in prison. They have the death penalty in some parts, but it is apparently not used.
KenyaUp to 14 years in prison.
Saudi ArabiaVery barbaric. Death penalty, or prison. Fines and floggings.
United Arab EmiratesPrison time. Minimum 6 months, but no upper maximum amount of time (up to the Courts).
Bangladesh10 years to life prison sentence.
MaldivesUp to 8 years in prison.
Pakistan2 years to life in prison.
Sri LankaUp to 10 years in prison, plus fines.
Malaysia20 years in prison.

What struck me after I compiled the list above, is that for some people, their holiday destination might be listed. I wonder if the people going on holiday to these places realise how they treat gay men there? Just a thought.

If you enjoyed this blog post, you might enjoy my Influential UK Gay Men article which is available as a free download here.

Write soon,

Antony

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