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The Unvailing of the BIG PURPLE THING!

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….and bring a hat and some cake!

On Sunday I was invited to Chrys’ house for the The Unvailing of the BIG PURPLE THING. This is her lovely outdoor sheltered area that has been painted purple and had two pieces of Lammas themed painted glass. It looked great and was an opportunity to catch up with my good friend Simon.

Hats were encouraged, I think the theme was summer hats for a summer party. I wore a fish hat (a bennie hat longer than necessary at the back). Don’t ask why it’s called a fish hat. Kindof a private joke. It wasn’t exactually a summer hat but it was the only hat I had. I borrowed it off Steve (another good friend) – if your reading Steve I promise to return it soon.

I met a man with the most wonderful energy. I managed to establish he was gay to which I started flirting. He made some comment about me being a child. I replied “Child?” He spelt it out (C – H – I – L – D). I responded by saying “Oh Kid. K – I – D.” Gawd, I am not always cool and collected as I would like to be. I guess I didn’t expect him to be ageist. And he really isn’t that older than me. I did pick up psychically in his aura that he has been hurt in the past. So I decided not to engage with him, feeling that I had overstepped the mark.

He must have realised that he had offended me (although I think I did a good job of hiding this to be polight at a party). Because he later came up to me and started chatting being more social.

It was overall a good party with lots of good pagan conversation with Janet (Simon’s Sister). I love her, really friendly and lovely. Unfortunately as I was unwell I didn’t stay for as long as I would of liked. But really enjoyed it why I was there and went home to bed.

In love and light,

Antony x

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A Hollywood Themed Party

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On Saturday I had been invited to a Hollywood themed party for my friend Sam. Now it’s ok for women to have a hollywood themed party because they can buy a nice frock and really put there glad-rags on. What’s the option for men? A tux. Well, I belatently refused to wear a tux.

I did come smart. A tight fitting black shirt (tight fitting in a good way), light designer jeans and shoes.

I wasn’t well over the weekend and fell asleep at the party. Yes, I had to be nunged awake.

It was nice to catch up with people that I hadn’t seen for a while. But I was also glad to get home to bed. I felt ambivalent,
party VS bed.

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Honest Coversations

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A few weeks ago I had some honest conversations. I am proud of the fact I was honest about how I feel about people. I am the type of person to keep my feelings to myself, so this is really a step forward.

The friendly ex (see An update on Men and Men) – I was honest and made it clear that I just wanted friendship. He was concerned that I might change my mind in a few months. I can understand this, given our history. But as I explained to him, I can only go off how I feel now. I think I can only have all (a relationship) or nothing (no friendship). This is a huge shame as he’s a wonderful guy.

The ex friend with benefits – I was honest after our recent date (see Harry Potter and Weridness), that emotionally I’ve moved on. I think he’ll make a good friend – we just need to keep the boundaries clear. I don’t want us slipping in to the old friends with benefits routine.

Blog soon,

Antony x

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A Lovely Day with Simon

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Today Simon and I went to Manchester Minerals and I bought this lovely quartz cluster:

(The picture really doesn’t do it justice. I did try many times to get a good picture, but the camrea on the BlackBerry Storm isn’t the best.)

It is beautiful and has loads of points. Ideal for using it to protect my new apartment. As well it has a hole on the inside that I can put other crystals in to charge.

After Manchester Minerals we went to the Trafford Centre and had a coffee and a to-die-for muffin. We then headed to dwell…(see my next ranty post for that story).

Thanks to Simon. I had a much-needed-after-recent-events lovely day.

Hugs,

Antony

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