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The Happiest I Have Ever Been

By Creativity, Friends & Family, Gay, Health, Life, Love & Relationships, Money / Finances, Thinking2 Comments

Just over a year ago, I felt numb and like I was coasting through life. I was existing, rather than living. I hadn’t been well for a while and had recently been diagnosed with vasculitis.

People with vasculitis have a significantly reduced life expectancy when compared to that of the average person. This diagnosis caused me to re-think every aspect of my life. It caused me to ask myself: Are you happy? The answer was no.

So then I started asking myself: What would make you happier? I had to look at everything: my health, my work, my relationships with others, my passions (including writing), my finances, my home life, my mental & emotional health.

It was a daunting task. Sometimes, it is easier to be stuck in an unhappy and unfulfilling rut, rather than be brave and face the truth. Especially when facing and accepting where I was in my life involved acknowledging the unhappiness and beginning to make changes.

Change is always hard. Our brains like patterns of behaviour. They are key to our survival as a species, but not key to a healthier and happier life.

So I got counselling. I explored every aspect of my life. I started making changes: prioritising my health, changing jobs, working with others to improve relationships – resetting of expectations and putting in boundaries, getting back on the dating apps, working on a more balanced approach to pursuing my passions, reducing my financial outgoings were possible and trying harder to stick to a budget, getting rid of excess clutter at home and generally taking better care of my mental and emotional health.

None of it was easy. And I’m still not where I want to be. But I’m pleased to say my health has improved in some areas such as my diabetes management & mental health. I am also happier than I can ever remember being.

Write soon,

Antony

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My Royal Navy Friend Becomes Funny Emails To My Friend in Rebrand

By Amazon, Books & Authors, Creativity, ThinkingNo Comments

My Royal Navy Friend has been rebranded to Funny Emails To My Friend:

This is because, despite the positive reviews, people aren’t attracted to The Royal Navy Friend title or cover. Here are some reviews for The Royal Navy Friend:

So my new title, Funny Emails To My Friend is available to buy from me here and on Amazon here.

Write soon,

Antony

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All About My Book Covers

By Books & Authors, Creativity, ThinkingNo Comments

This post is all about my book covers for the books that I currently have published. My current published books are: Z-Virus Monsters (2025), Z-Virus Powers (2024), Ways The Human Body Can Go Wrong (2024), My Royal Navy Friend (2024), The Alcohol Therapy Workbook (2023), SpellCast (co-authored with Luna Hare) (2021) and Mental Health Wisdom (2019).

Book covers really exist to sell books. But each of mine have been somewhat personal. So here is each book cover and its story:

This is my favourite book cover of the Z-Virus series. A lion with red eyes around carnivorous plants.

The same book cover designer did all three of my book covers for the Z-Virus series.

I don’t think I’d change this cover. I really like it.

I got a mid-priced book cover designer to design Z-Virus Powers off Fiverr. At the time, I was still writing the book and all I knew was that it was about: zombies and teenagers with supernatural powers. I also knew that I wanted the book cover to have a red theme.

The book cover designer and I went through a different versions to come up with this, the final version.

I do have to say that I wasn’t 100% happy with it, but I listed the job with little requirements and came away with a reasonable book cover.

I still don’t know what I’d do to make it better. Perhaps, now that it’s written, I would have a designer create The Battle of Anglesey Bridge scene in the book.

But this will remain the cover, unless it becomes a huge commercial success.

I love this cover and designed it myself using images on a commercial licence from a Spanish student.

I wanted a cover to catch the eye and cover practically every aspect of the human body. I managed to create this using GIMP (think Adobe Photoshop only free) and am rather pleased with how it turned out.

Some have said the title could have been bigger or shorter. The title is the size it is, because I didn’t want to detract from the illustrations too much.

The long title reflected how I felt about my body at the time: I didn’t know there were so many ways the human body could go wrong.

My Royal Navy Friend is perhaps the worst book title and cover in my published works, because the book really isn’t about The Royal Navy.

Instead it is about a friend away on deployment and about maintaining our friendship through emails on a variety of entertaining, interesting and funny topics.

But because this book is so personal, at this time, I’m in a place where I don’t want to change the book title or cover. One of the reasons is because I can’t think of anything better.

This was another cover designer on Fiverr. He did an excellent job including all my requirements.

Surprisingly, The Alcohol Therapy Workbook didn’t do well in terms of sales on its release. However now, they grow each month.

I love the broken champagne glass as a symbol that alcohol can effect anyone, even the more affluent and as a symbol of what alcohol and indeed any addiction can do to a person’s life.

The photo for this cover was intended to make someone thing magic. I think it does that.

But the image width was too thin, so I had to put the title of the book down the right-hand side to take up space. I tried making the image bigger, but it skewed the image. So this was the best I could do.

I still think it’s a good attempt at a cover, especially as it was only the second one I had ever designed.

This was my first book and perhaps the most personal. The cloud represents depression and the colourful umbrella represents things I need to stay mentally well.

I’m perhaps most proud of this book cover and book.

Write soon,

Antony

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Poetry

By Creativity, Friends & Family, ThinkingNo Comments

Yesterday evening a friend and I went to an Open Mic night for poetry. My friend is a Poet in her very heart and soul. Whereas, I’m more of an appreciator of it as a creative form of prose.

We went to @The.S.Werd’s event in Preston. It was fantastic. Everyone who wants to share their poetry can do so and is given 5 minutes of mic time. I really enjoyed it and can’t wait till the next one.

There’s some really talented Poets out there, but combining poetry with performance really brings the words to life. You hear people’s stories and you feel what the Poet’s were feeling when they wrote their poems. Poems can be funny, deep, uplifting, weird and be about practically any topic.

So if you’ve never been to a poetry open mic night, I recommend you check one out.

Write soon,

Antony

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