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Antony
One of the things I wanted to do in 2025 is to keep a diary. To record my memories, moods and triggers. I decided an App might be better than one of the hundred notebooks that I have. So I decided to try the app Daybook. I have to say, I am really rather impressed. Here are some screenshots:
Daybook has got an endless list of features, making it suitable for anyone. But here are the ones that I use and like:
- Daily notification reminders, for which you choose the time.
- Post Tags.
- Attaching photos to posts.
- Use both on the App on my phone and web browser.
- Mood Check-In.
- Security features: Pin lock, password and biometrics used to secure your data.
- Calendar to see how often I’m making entries.
- Data graphs to track my progress with mood, etc.
I love this app. I have been using it for a few months and more often or not I complete a daily diary and mood check-in. It has so much potential and so many different uses for different users.
To balance this here are the annoying or frustrating aspects of the App:
- It would be great if I could write my To Do Lists on there and tick items off as I complete them. Instead I continue to use the Notes app to do this.
- Tags not allowing capital letters and Android App defaultly wanting to put the first character in caps. Means you have to press the first letter twice, very annoying. I have been in touch with the developer about this and they assure me that the next version of the app will be fixed, but they did not give a timescale for this.
- No ability to attach short videos to your posts.
- No ability to add links into posts. Or save webpages.
- The price is expensive at £3.49 per month for a premium subscription. This means I probably will switch to a cheaper app in the long term.
- No mention of if diary entries are encrypted, I hope to goodness that they are.
Write soon,
Antony
My refreshed money bowl, click on image for full size:
Just over a year ago I wrote about a money bowl. What I neglected to say in this post, is that money bowls require occasional a bit of attention. So, refreshing a money bowl, what does it involve? Here is a guide:
- Throw away the rice, bay leafs and any other herbs. Refresh with fresh ingredients.
- Cleanse, charge and re-intent any crystals. For the correct crystals to use in a money bowl see my Magical Properties page. I’ve used a green adventurine pyramid and mushroom, pieces of citrine, aqua aura quartz points and a piece of malachite.
- Spend the money you’ve previously used and put fresh money in, of more expensive coins if you can. Put three coins in because three is a magic number.
- Think of ways to enhance the power of the money bowl. In my bowl above, I’ve surrounded it by a crystal grid, containing green adventurine and pyrite cubes. All connected energetically to the adventurine pyramid.
- Give your refreshed money bowl attention and feed it energy each day.
Write soon,
Antony
To celebrate the release of my Influential UK Gay Men article, which you can read in full for FREE here, here are some of my favourites:
Mark Ashton (1960-1987)
Mark Ashton was a lifelong activist for equality. He helped found Lesbian, Gay Support the Miners (LGSM) charity. He volunteered at the Switchboard and LGBT+ charity.
In addition to fighting for LGBT+ equality Ashton also campaigned for nuclear disarmament.
Towards the end of Ashton’s life, he advocated for young people’s involvement in politics, using music and art as engagement strategies.
Ashton sadly died of AIDS, a short period of time after diagnosis in the late 80s.
A famous Ashton quote is:
“Why should gay people like me support the
miners? Because miners dig for coal, which
produces power, which allows gay people like us
to dance to Bananarama till 3 o’clock in the
morning.”
Next we have my future husband Jonathan Bailey:
Jonathan Bailey (1988-Present)
Jonathan Bailey is a star of stage and screen, who is perhaps most famous for his portrayal of Anthony, 9th Viscount of Bridgerton and Fiyero in Wicked (the film with the musical of the same name).
In terms of speaking about his sexuality Bailey has said:
“If I can fill spaces that I didn’t have growing up then I feel like that’s a really brilliant thing.”
And:
“I hope queer kids will see my work and know that things will be okay.”
Bailey recalled learning that one of his fellow actors was told:
“There’s two things we don’t want to know: if you’re an alcoholic or if you’re gay.”
Rupert Everett (1959-Present)
Rupert Everett came out as gay when it wasn’t popular to do so. This takes great bravery and courage and for that this man has a special place in my heart.
Everett has played various roles in films, on TV and in theatre productions. But only recently being recognised with winning awards. These days Everett is married to his partner Henrique.
Everett has been criticised for some of his views. But he explained in an interview:
“For me, being gay was about wanting to do the opposite of the straight world, so I think that’s
where my problems in this particular area come from. But that’s me, just me. I’m not having a
go at gay couples who do. I think if Elton (John) and David (Furnish) want to have babies, that’s
wonderful. I think we should all do what we want.”
Paul O’Grady (1955-2023)
It is no exaggeration to say that Paul O’Grady was loved by millions thanks to his prime time TV show: The Paul O’Grady Show. On this show, he chatted with guests, shared his love of dogs and had a warmth that radiated through television sets up and down the country.
Gay people will particularly remember council dweller Lily Savage, a character played and created by O’Grady. O’Grady was known for his quick wit whether as Lily Savage or as himself.
In addition to his work, O’Grady did a lot for charities including ones that support children, animals and
dementia. These were all causes close to his heart.
O’Grady was proud of his working class roots and often supported The Labour Party.
O’Grady has been declared by some to be a national treasure and I completely agree. O’Grady had a settled married life with a husband on a farm in Kent. Returning to London for work purposes.
O’Grady wrote his autobiography in two parts. He died quite suddenly of a heart attack. O’Grady had struggled with an addiction to cigarettes all of his adult life and probably before then, which contributed to his cause of death.
One thing I’ve noticed when talking with others about O’Grady, is that they never say anything bad. It’s always positive.
Alan Turing (1912-1954)
Alan Turing’s story is a sad one. These days his face resides on a £50 banknote and is celebrated as a hero. Turing was for all intents and purposes a genius. He is described as a creator of modern computing, a mathematician, a computer scientist, a cryptanalyst, a philosopher and a theoretical biologist. Turning studied at the top universities in both the UK and in the USA.Turing’s story starts out quite positively. In 1936, he published a paper that outlines the ‘Universal Machine’ code that forms the basis of modern computers, even today.
Then in 1939 Turning broke the German Enigma code, giving the British a significant advantage in the Second World War. But he didn’t stop there, continuing to help break other codes that were vital to the success of the war efforts against the Germans.
After the war, in 1952 Turing was convicted of gross indecency due to all male homosexual activities being illegal until as late as 1967. Turning was made an example of. He was chemically castrated using hormones, denied the ability to work on the intellectual projects that he had done so previously and publicly shamed. Turing was hounded and harassed by the Police. They were instructed to monitor him closely, in case he became a security risk, given his previous level of security clearance.
In 1954, Turing ended his life by cyanide poisoning. He was just 41 years old at the time. Turing no doubt felt like his life was over. He was no longer allowed to do his work and he was under constant surveillance.. Like there was nothing left worth living for.
Despite those in power knowing about Turing’s contributions to the War efforts and his other great works, it took a Royal Pardon in 2013 to decriminalise him and many others who had been treated the same way for illegal homosexual acts. Just goes to show that just because something is law, doesn’t mean it’s right.
I wish so many things for Alan Turing. I wish he had lived to see the decriminalisation of homosexuality/homosexual acts.
I wish Turning had got to see the civil rights movement that followed and the strides towards equality that we have made.
I wish that they had continued to let him work, imagine what other great works he could have achieved.
I wish that he’d found acceptance from his peers, society and most importantly found love.
I wish he could see that he’s on every £50 note.
Andrew Bailey, the governor of the Bank of England, said about Turing:
“Turing was a leading mathematician, developmental biologist, and a pioneer in the field of computer science.
“He was also gay, and was treated appallingly as a result. By placing him on our new polymer £50 banknote, we are celebrating his achievements, and the values he symbolises.”
I would like to hope that this would never happen again in the UK.
But across the world, there are still many places where being gay is a crime with severe punishments for those caught. Some gay people are still oppressed and discriminated against for who they love. It’s so wrong.
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Best Wishes,
Antony
