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By Thursday 23 February 2012Thinking

Following on from my last post Listening to my Heart through Mediation, I wanted to write about fear. I remember as a child I had confidence (albeit at little too much at times) to attempt anything, I had no fear of failure. It was one of the most precious gifts my mum had instilled me and my brothers. But since I’ve been listening to my heart I have felt more fear than ever before.

Perhaps it’s worried about more emotional trauma. Which is completely understandable. But recently I’ve had to go into situations that my fear has made me dredd beforehand, imaging what’s going to be said by people, how they will respond to me, etc. And you know what?

Facing my fear has been good. It’s never been as bad as I’ve imagined, in fact in some situations quite the opposite. So my advice to anyone feeling fear – think about how positive the situation could go (to give a balanced view), then go and face the situation – it’s never as bad as your fear makes out. And if it was, simply do what you have to do and then walk away.

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  • Mike says:

    Fear and fear of failure is such a terrible influence on people. I completely support what you write in your post. You might want to consider reading “So what’s stopping you” by Robert Kelsey ISBN 978-0-857-08272-8. I think it’s rather good 🙂

  • Antony says:

    Hi Mike,

    Thanks for the comment. Sound’s like a good book, I’ll have to check it out.

    A x

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