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Out of Ink

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During the day before we went watching District 9 (see District 9 Film Review). GJ and I had gone shopping for a new printer he needed. At the till he was asked: “Would you like to buy any ink cartridges?” To which I answered:
“No, it comes with them.”
(Obiously thinking that he could get the cartidges cheaper than the £18 they were in the shop, trying to save him money!)
“They are only starter ones. They only do about 50 pages.”
“We’ll be fine.” I answered for him again.
(Goddess, I’m quite very bad at that at times, when I think I’m right!)

So I had grand plans the other night: Jaquizi bath, a good meal and chill. Then GJ texted me, stating his printer had run out of ink! I felt really bad, so offered to pick him up and take him back to mine to complete the printing for him. He kept saying it wasn’t my fault but I felt guilty. He needed the work the following morning and it was too late for him to go anywhere and buy any.

I scoffed a quick tea down and picked him up. It was lovely to see him. I don’t quite know why, but I have a lot of positive regard for him. We have previously been out (see An update on men and Men, he was called the friendly ex in these posts). I guess I still have some feelings for him, especially after our recent conversation (see District 9 Film Review).

My love life seems to be getting more and more confusing and more and more complicated. Yet, I have had the honest conversation about staying friends with them both. What’s going on?

Blog soon (hopefully less confused),

Antony

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Youtube Homophobia

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Over a year ago, I posted this video to Youtube:

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Then about a week ago, I received an email stating I had comments on the video. I logged on and saw:

It was a reminder that homophobia still exsists in this hertrosexual world.

How would this person react if they met me face to face? Would they hide their homophobia or be verbally and physically abusive? I guess for them it would depend on the setting. I would react in the same way regardless of the setting, I would challenge their homophobia providing it was safe to do so.

My response to him: Yeah, I’m gay, and?

If I were him I would be concerned as to why he was on a video authored by a gay man? Perhaps some internalised homophobia towards himself?

Get a life! I shall be challenging this through Youtube. Not so much for me, but for any gay person that has ever experienced homophobia. If it’s not challenged, it will only continue.

Let you know how I get on with Youtube,

Antony x

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Youtube Celebrates

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Youtube

has cause to celebrate as recently (as reported by the Telegraph) has agreed a deal with PRS money in order to be able to host music videos for some well known artists. So in celebration, here’s a videos that previously couldn’t be on Youtube:

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Links:
Why It’s In Everyone’s Interest to Get Music Videos Back on YouTube in the UK
YouTube Vs. PRS – Whoever Wins, It Will Probably Be Bad News For Content Owners
Why YouTube’s PRS Spat Is Just One Battle In The Coming Online Music War

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You Dirty Dancing Ghost

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Patrick Swayze, the actor in the iconic film Dirty Dancing and actor in Ghost has died of pancreatic cancer. Dirty Dancing was a film I was introduced as a child and loved. This particular song always jumps in to my mind when I hear someone mention Dirty Dancing:

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So many people have had their first dance at their weddings to this song. Indeed both the film and music have inspired a great number of people.

Believe it or not, I only recently saw the film Ghost on the bbc, I instantly loved it. Fantastic idea, good script and brilliant acting. (It also stared my faviourate comedian/actor/author Whoopi Goldberg.)

The tributes have been coming in from his colleagues in the industry:

Jennifer Grey, who co-starred with Swayze in Dirty Dancing led the tributes, releasing a statement that said: “Patrick was a rare and beautiful combination of raw masculinity and amazing grace.

“Gorgeous and strong, he was a real cowboy with a tender heart. He was fearless and insisted on always doing his own stunts, so it was not surprising to me that the war he waged on his cancer was so courageous and dignified.”
(from: Guardian, Last accessed: 15th September 09)

And:

Whoopi Goldberg, who also appeared in Ghost, said: “Patrick was a really good man, a funny man and one to whom I owe much that I can’t ever repay. I believe in Ghost’s message, so he’ll always be near.”
(from: Guardian, Last accessed: 15th September 09)

It was also interesting to read:

The 1990 film Ghost cemented Swayze as a favourite. It was an even bigger hit than Dirty Dancing, with a domestic box office take of more than $217m, and $505m around the world.
(from: Guardian, Last accessed: 15th September 09)

Who’d of thought?

So…
R.I.P Patrick.

Antony x

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