Archive for the Love & Relationships Category
Tom Dick and Sally – Online Dating
It’s coming up to Christmas and I’ve been noticing a lot of couples around. I recently joined Tom Dick and Sally a gay dating website. It was accidental as I clicked on a link on Facebook. Here’s what their website said: Our vision was to create a same sex dating website which you could show [...]
An Unsent Letter
I’ve mentioned before that I find writing this blog theraputic (see My Writing Process – for some of my better blog posts). Sometimes it seems we can’t say what we feel to people but we feel that we need to express this emotion. So I decided a month ago to write an unsent letter. The [...]
Need to talk to you
Text sent:What are your plans for Saturday? :) Text recieved:Not sure but will discuss it when I call, need to talk to you So I called the date who shall remain nameless. He said that he wanted to develop a friendship rather than a relationship. This is fine. We’d only seen each other a few [...]
So, how did it go?
The question on everybody’s lips at work was “So, how did it go? This ofcourse refers to the date I had on Saturday (see I have a date on Saturday). Yeah, it seems that when I’ve got news I have a need to tell everyone, probably why partly I write this blog. I arrived to [...]
I have a date on Saturday
I am excited to be going for a meal in a fancy resturant with a man who shall remain nameless. It is technically not the first time I have seen him. Two nights this week I have been round at his for brews. He is lovely, caring, friendly, funny (at times) and very sexy. We’ve [...]
All of your tick boxes
When looking for a partner we all have tick boxes in our head. Qualities, traits or characteristics that we would like them to meet. Some we see as essential and others aren’t as important. Some of my tick boxes are: Attractive – nice eyes, short, slim Emotions – love, make me feel that certain way [...]
Gravey
The other Sunday JB and I arranged to go for Sunday dinner. He wanted pizza (or some pasta thingy) and I wanted a traditional Sunday cavery. I stated over text that we could negociate (meaning I wanted my own way). JB being clever and diplomatic that he is, let me have my own way! So [...]
Out of Ink
During the day before we went watching District 9 (see District 9 Film Review). GJ and I had gone shopping for a new printer he needed. At the till he was asked: “Would you like to buy any ink cartridges?” To which I answered: “No, it comes with them.” (Obiously thinking that he could get [...]
Tastilious Food with a BUT…
JB came round the other night and cooked me an absoluately delious, tastilious meal. We had Chicken, Potatoes, Veg, nicely covered with gravey. The meal was great as was the conversation. After the meal we sat on the couch with a brew chatting, he put his hand on my leg. I felt uncomfortable, but tried [...]
Cards on the table
The other night the ex friend with benefits came round for a brew. I’m not sure I like the term ex friend with benefits for him anymore, so from now on he shall be known as JB. The history between us is that I wanted at a relationship and all he could offer was benefits [...]




